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Lawsuits
and Media Circusesby Chris
Tong, Ph.D. Back in the mid-1980s, a couple of lawsuits
were brought against Adi Da Samraj by a few disaffected former devotees. When
these lawsuits were made public, given the nature of modern sensationalistic journalism,
a generally negative public attitude toward "gurus", and the exaggerated language
that commonly appears in legal complaints, a kind of "media circus" erupted. There
was significant newspaper and television coverage, including a Today Show "expose"
about Adidam as a "religious cult".
The basic facts
The basic facts are pretty straightforward. As longtime devotee, James Steinberg,
put it, in answering a reporter's
question about the lawsuits: "Well, first, it is not like there
are lots of lawsuits. There was one major lawsuit [filed by Beverly
O'Mahony, March 4, 1985]." There was also a counter-suit by
Adidam for extortion, and finally out-of-court settlements. As Brian O'Mahony makes clear: "The entire affair
was eventually settled out of court by our insurance companies to
avoid the incredible expense of an extended court process."
The losing side does not ordinarily
have to pay the winning side's attorney's fees, contrary to
popularly held belief. In the United States, the general rule
(called the American Rule) is that each party pays only their
own attorney's fees, regardless of whether they win or lose.
This allows people to bring cases and lawsuits without the
fear of incurring excessive costs if they lose the case. In
contrast, in England and other countries, the losing side
is often required to pay the other side's attorney's fees
after losing a trial.
The Nolo Network, Attorney
Fees: Does the Losing Side Have to Pay?
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No charges or indictments were ever brought against Adi Da or Adidam.
And no further lawsuit has been filed against Adi Da or Adidam since
that brief period in the mid-1980's.
Beverly
O'Mahony (her married name at the time; she has since remarried) was the ex-devotee
bringing the primary lawsuit. The complaints included "coercion", "infliction
of emotional distress", "assault and battery", and "involuntary servitude". In
November, 1985, a Marin County judge ruled that Beverly had no legal basis for filing
the lawsuit; the Marin County Superior Court dismissed the case. And in 2006,
a devotee in England was involved in a child custody case, where her ex-husband
thought he could gain some legal advantage by bringing up in court all the slander
he could find about Adi Da Samraj on the Internet. The judge went through every
allegation, and dismissed every single one of them as being either hearsay, rumor,
or utterly irrelevant, and having no legal basis in fact. In a letter that
Beverly wrote years after the lawsuit (and the ensuing media circus) to her ex-husband,
Brian O'Mahony (who is still a devotee of Adi Da, and was interviewed
by us about the lawsuits, etc.), she exonerated Adi Da completely.
Among other things, she wrote: "I agree that 99% of what I have seen of any reporting
on the Community/Guru is horseshit." "I can't think of anything the Master ever
forced me to do." "The only physical contact I have ever had with Da is a few
hugs, and when I was very pregnant, he touched my belly in a gentle and soothing
way. That is it." She explained that most of the "complaints" were made up by
her lawyer, who had taken advantage of the fact that she was going through a difficult
divorce from Brian, and was in a very vulnerable state — which her lawyers were
obviously aware of themselves, since they noted it in the complaint: writing that,
at the time they knew her, "she was a young, naive, impressionable and very lonely
girl." As Brian O'Mahony has put
it: "The lawsuit was very deliberately crafted to make Adi Da and Adidam look
like a destructive cult. It had no basis in fact. . . . I remember my own feelings
of pain and anguish when Adi Da, my friends, and I were attacked by the allegations.
. . . To the surprise of no one involved with the drama of that time, the lawyer
was disbarred some years later."
The media circus: the Today Show "expose" of Adidam as a "religious cult"
Beverly continues: "Had I known it would turn into the media
circus it did, I wouldn't have taken that ride. I enjoy my privacy. The media,
both TV and newspaper, distorted everything. I was interviewed by a reporter,
for one of the San Francisco papers — I can't remember if it was the Examiner
or the Chronicle, and I couldn't believe it when I read the article. It
had very little to do with anything I had said. It was at that point that I lost
faith in the news, journalism and reporters, etc."
Other
devotees would agree. Frans Bakker and Susan Lesser were two of the devotees responding
on behalf of Adidam to the Today Show reporter. Both were young and neither
had any previous experience with the media. So when the reporter assured them
of positive exposure, they naively believed him. Frans would later tell us the
story of how the Today Show crew "grilled" him and Susan Lesser for hours, confronting
them with endless provocative questions and accusations, while filming all the
time. Frans and Susan both did their very best to respond, checking their growing
impatience. But after five hours, they just couldn't tolerate the harrassment
any more — and they exploded, their faces contorted in anger as they denounced
the endless false accusations they had been hearing. And as it turned out, that explosion
was the only part of the five hours of filming that was used in the actual
show: these two devotees at "their worst", removed from the context of that provocative,
five-hour grilling.
In hindsight,
it was clear to Frans and Susan that this had been a deliberate strategy: the
film crew had been deliberately provoking them and waiting to capture their explosion
on film, so they could feature it.
At
another point in the Today Show episode, the reporter suggests that Beverly was "held
on Fiji against her will" when she decided to leave Adidam. Lynne Wagner, who
was named as one of the defendants in the complaint (which shocked Lynne when
she found out), has this to say:
When
told that I was being sued for "imprisoning" Beverly, my first
response was amazement. It was such a distortion of the real
events, I could not believe that she was serious. During the
couple of weeks Beverly was on retreat in Fiji, I talked with
her two or three times about her practice and what she was
going through with Brian. She was very unhappy about their
relationship and determined to confront him when she got back
to California. Discussing her marital problems was uncomfortable,
but I was Brian's friend, had just met Beverly and wanted
to help them, because I thought they loved each other.
I suggested that Beverly stay on the island a bit longer, take some time to relax, come to
terms with her feelings of anger and betrayal and consider all the issues she
wanted to bring up with Brian. And that's what she did — she waited a week or
so until the next boat came to the island, and then she left. She certainly was
not "held against her will".
Beverly's lawyer even talked to my parents, which upset them terribly. It took me years
to recover their trust. The lawsuit and the public defamation was devastating
to me and my family. It happened many years ago and wounds have healed, but I
learned an indelible lesson about the world: People can justify causing one another
great suffering, and the media will exploit their pain and even misrepresent the
truth if there is profit to be made.
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At yet another point in the
Today Show episode, an allegation was made that, during the 1970's,
a young girl had been forced to take off her clothes in front of
a group of adults that included Adi Da.
What actually was the case?
The young girl (who was age ten at the time) was one of many children
whose parents were part of the Adidam community. In those days,
Adi Da's devotees would often gather with Adi Da at a former Northern
California hot springs resort, which Adi Da had transformed into
an Adidam sanctuary He called the
Mountain Of Attention. Since the sanctuary had bathing facilities
associated with the hot springs, it was common in the 1970's for
the bathing to be "clothing optional" during the summer.
As is frequently the case in "clothing optional" bathing
facilities, parents would often be joined by their children at these
bathing occasions. Cere B., one of the young girl's friends at the
time who was present, recalls those times:
[The
young girl described in the Today Show episode] was my childhood
best friend. My memory is of a free and happy childhood time
when we were often all naked at the pools and mineral baths
and needed no prompting. It was just natural, and in no way
strange or untoward.
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Tally Rhodes was another girl who (at age 17) appeared in the Today Show episode. Here's what Tally recently wrote about that experience (in her online blog):
Shortly before graduation [from Adidam's school for young people], I was interviewed by Boyd Matson from The Today Show. Jim Jones and Rajneesh were dominating the headlines and there was intense media interest in cultic organizations. In retrospect, it was naive for adults in Adidam to invite The Today Show to do a story in that cultural landscape and expect it to be positive. When Boyd interviewed me, he seemed to be interested and even moved by what I had to say. Yet, when the clip aired, I was shocked. It made me look brainwashed and I wasn't. It implied I was a victim of sexual abuse within the church when the opposite was true, my blood father had abused me before I met Adi Da, and Adi Da's spiritual instruction had directly helped me heal from that scarring incident. I was reeling, I felt targeted by the media and deeply upset that my parents and adult friends, who had lived with uncommon freedom, now became very uptight. This was a turning point in my life.
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So much for the Today Show's attempt to portray Adi Da as a child
abuser! In reality, Adi Da's love for children was so profound that
He developed an entire culture of unique and comprehensive wisdom
for raising children humanly and spiritually; many young people
who grew up in the Adidam community have attested to how much they
appreciated their Adidam upbringing. (More here.)
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We could continue stepping through (and pulling apart) every insinuation, distortion, and miscommunication
made by the Today Show's "expose of Adidam as a cult";
but the show doesn't deserve it, and the examples we've already laid out are enough to make our overarching point: the Today Show's "Adidam expose" episode has no credibility whatsoever.
It doesn't take much journalistic digging
to discover why the Today Show reporter who put together the episode so aggressively (and baselessly) attacked Adidam. That reporter had strong, personal religious
affiliations (including patronage of a scholarship at a Christian
university with a stated intention of converting the world to Christianity) —
a compelling reason for questioning the objectivity of the TV segment
he put together on our non-Christian religious tradition. A further
reason for questioning the reporter's objectivity can be seen in the TV segment
itself: it contains footage of him on Adidam property shortly after
he arrived, reporting "conclusions" to the camera about Adidam which
not only were false, but which he simply could not have had sufficient
time to research, having only just begun his "investigation". Lastly,
the Today Show reporter had personally assured us that he would produce a show
that would give Adidam positive and balanced exposure; we would not have worked with him otherwise. And then, in violation of all personal integrity,
he turned around and did the exact opposite. For these and other
reasons, it was clear to us that the reporter had pre-determined
that — whatever it took — he was going to paint Adidam as a "cult", and had intended all along to produce
an "expose" on this minority religion so different from his own
mainstream affiliation.
Read
an interview with Brian O'Mahony
about the lawsuits and the media circus.
Lawsuits, service professions, and expectations
Every area of human life that involves service to others — including religion and spiritual traditions — is also accompanied by lawsuits. Again, from James Steinberg: "People
may be familiar with the fact that Upasani Baba faced court trials, as did Ramana
Maharshi (they sent someone out to deposition him), as they did with Shirdi Sai
Baba. And this is in India where there is a much stronger tradition of understanding
about such God-men and women."
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In other words,
even genuine and highly respected spiritual masters, from Ramana Maharshi to Adi
Da Samraj, can be sued. (In a different time, another great spiritual master was
even crucified.) Many of our best doctors, psychiatrists, and other servants of
society have been sued — which is not altogether surprising in the litigious society
of the contemporary United States.
Any time there is the potential for a gap between expectations and reality —
the expectations of the one being served, and the reality of what the one serving
them must do to serve them effectively — there is the potential for a lawsuit.
It might be a paramedic breaking someone's rib while performing the Heimlich maneuver
to save the person's life. Or it might be a psychiatrist delving into unconscious matters
that a person has suppressed all his life, to raise these things to consciousness
so he can be free of them at last.
And
in some sense, there is no greater potential for a gap between expectation and
reality than in the area of spirituality. Our Western "consumer" culture programs us
to expect "Enlightenment in a weekend" (in the manner of "fast food" to go). But true Spiritual
Realization requires a most profound ordeal of transcending one's ego, and a Spiritual
Master who, once "hired" for the job, won't let you off the hook. It is
going to hurt! No doubt about it. But if we are smart, and remain clear in our higher
purpose of Spiritual Realization (and in our understanding of how that purpose
necessarily entails transcendence of self), we keep it a struggle with self, rather
than turning it into a struggle with the Spiritual Master we chose to help us
with that very purpose. As Laughing Man Institute
Director, James Alwood, puts
it:
There
is a hidden presumption that if someone feels like they were hurt by a Spiritual
Master that that somehow brings into question the Spiritual Master himself or
herself. All throughout history, Spiritual Realizers of every kind have been suppressed,
attacked, vilified, and treated basically like scum or social “outsiders”. Spiritual
Realizers disturb egos. That is Their job. That is What They do.
Egos do not like to be disturbed. Egos sometimes fight back viciously, usually
reacting to the Spiritual Realizer as if he or she were a “Dad” or a “Mom” that
failed to console them, or failed to protect their precious “egos”. |
Author Mariana
Caplan makes a complementary point about how contemporary views of ethics and
morality can place constraints on genuine Spiritual Masters that limit their ability to practice Crazy Wisdom as needed, and hence limit their effectiveness
as Spiritual Masters:
As
it is concerned with conventional morality, the expression of crazy wisdom can
be disturbing to the mind, challenging conditioned notions of ethics and morality.
It is wise that this is so, as far too many self-proclaimed messiahs have incorporated
highly questionable behaviors in the service of so-called awakening. Unfortunately,
such behaviors on the part of charlatans have created skepticism regarding the
[long-established] field of crazy wisdom — a
manner of teaching that has been in existence for thousands of years. In a culture
full of dubious spiritual authorities, few [genuine] Western crazy-wisdom masters
today are afforded the privilege of making use of their full bag of tricks. They
are well aware that a single lawsuit brought against them by one unhappy ego could
result in their losing the opportunity to continue their teaching function; thus
they choose to accept the "oppression" of their mastery in service of
remaining available to their students. Mariana Caplan, Ph.D.,
p. 173, The
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Instead of suing the Spiritual Master, take advantage of his or her help and transcend self
As we have pointed out, even great servants of society may get sued.
But dwarfing such lawsuits is their track record of helping others. Great doctors
heal patients; great psychiatrists help relieve their patients of some of their
negative psychological patterning; and great spiritual masters help their devotees
transcend themselves, help them experience the greater-than-material Spiritual
Reality, and utimately help them to realize that Spiritual Reality. This site
is full of stories of Adi Da helping devotees in that ordeal of transcendence
— an ordeal for both the devotee and Adi Da Samraj — and of devotees who chose
to accept the Master's help, "stayed the course", came out the other side of a
growth process, and were able to report a breakthrough in their human or spiritual
maturity, from the humble to the extraordinary. (And Adi Da has made it clear
that there can be no substantial spiritual maturity without substantial human
maturity first.) Here are just a few such stories:
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